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I feel like ttc after my miscarriage in January has made me bitter,  somewhat crazy,  and borderline depressed. The constant peeing on opks and pregnancy tests month after month just to be let down.. the feelings of bitterness everytime someone else announces they are pregnant even though youre happy for them... the staring at lines until you can't see straight anymore just waiting for a second one that's not coming.. I don't like this person im becoming,  I don't like what I'm feeling.  After af shows up on Thursday, I'm taking a "break". No opks, no glow tracking, no timing out having sex with my husband.  I'm going to take time to relax, maybe get a massage, enjoy intimate time with my husband just because,  and wait for af to show. And maybe just maybe she won't.

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I agree with everything you said. I don’t like the “it will happen one day” or “you are so fertile after a miscarriage it will happen”. I feel like the holidays just magnify that your little one is not here at least that is how I have been feeling.

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I am right there with you!!! It has been almost 9 months since my misscarage. The holidays seems to be making me feel worse. All I want for Christmas is two pink lines. We have been ttc for over 2yrs now.

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Ladies, I'm so sorry for all of us. I wouldn't wish this pain on my worst enemy. After trying awhile I finally got pregnant last year during October. The holidays last year were wonderful, and after a couple healthy scans we announced. Christmas week came and I miscarried at 12 weeks. Very traumatic expierece, and I haven't been myself since that dreadful day. Here we are again in the holiday season and I'm still sitting here trying to get pregnant. Normally I love the holiday hustle and bussel, but this time I'm withdrawn, depressed, and lonely. I have been acting like the Grinch really. I can't believe this is my life and to make things worst, my best friend who wasn't trying just had her 4th unplanned baby. Again I'm so sorry ladies, we will get there someday, we just have too...

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Right there with you. You are not alone. 6 months since my miscarriage and so tired of seeing negative pregnancy tests. Just like you, I have become bitter, depressed, withdrawn, and beyond exhausted. I can’t take any more let downs. But I agree with taking a break and focusing on yourself and relaxing. I am going to do the same! ❤️

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I'm right there with you. Going on TEN months since my MC and still haven't gotten pregnant while everyone and their mothers are just popping up pregnancy announcements while I sit there staring at a pregnancy test hoping it will turn out positive. I've done no opk and pregnancy test it's also torture because you want to get pregnant bit don't know when you ovulate with those damn opks. I'm a HOT FREAKING MESS.

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Here here! I was meant to be due in December near Christmas if I hadn’t had a mc in May. It’s quite depressing it took me almost 8 months to conceive and now 6 months after MC and nothing. 😕😞 I just wish for 2 lines this Christmas to get over this! 🤞

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I feel ya girl. Had a miscarriage in January too. Only took me 3 months to get that positive, now it’s been almost a year and nothing. It’s frustrating to no end.

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