Was I almost sexually assaulted? Am I right to still be upset over this or am I overreacting? đ
I was gonna spend the night with my aunt and uncle when I was 14. I was wearing a tank top and a tong sleeve shirt with pj pants. It was about midnight when my black out drunk uncle told me I needed to talk to him on the porch. My aunt was asleep and the kids were awake playing around inside. My uncle asked if I had âthe giftâ I didnât answer and he stated to get aggravated. He said he would see how people would die. He told me Iâd die a lonely old woman that everyone hated and called a witch and evil. Then a few minutes later he started rubbing my leg and tugging on my shirt saying I wore too many clothes and I shouldnât be wasting my time with the boy that I was seeing at the time. He started to rest his head on my lap and kept insisting that I looked better with less clothes. I got scared grabbed his bottle of alcohol took it to the kitchen and left. I didnât want to go home because I wanted to see my bf so I walk at midnight to his house, he wasnât there so I went back to my uncles house and fell asleep waiting for my other uncle who lived there to take me home.
A few weeks later my bf came to my house to tell my parents what had happened. I told him to leave because my parents didnât want me to be with him. He did and my parents demanded to know what was going on so I told them everything.
They told me I was lying and I shouldnât be saying that stuff or heâd go to prison. I got slapped and grounded for leaving the house. I wasnât allowed to leave my moms side so I had to go to my uncles house multiple times. He didnât remember a thing.
Years later my adult reckless druggy cousin had sex with him and another uncle (years before we fucked my 14 yo aunt who is now married to his brother. He doesnât know he took her virginity)
Everyone in my family made it a huge deal and all these memories and feelings have come back that they never believed me because nothing really happened but he was about to...
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