Told my husband i wasn’t happy this past Friday. I cried in front of him to show the depth of the situation. I feel like he has been putting his parents first and he sucks at saying no to them. We have been together 8 years married for one &’ just had our second daughter back in October. So aside from not feeling like an priority i felt like an option. I slept on the couch most nights. I don’t even feel attractive anymore i’m trying to get use to my mommy tummy all over again. But there is light at the tunnel, when i told him i was unhappy everything escalated at first and got to the point i was ready to call it quits. But he went in the room calmed down gathered his thoughts and came back. & laid everything out we needed to get off our chest. We’ve great ever since. Sex has gone up. Our communication has gotten better. it’s been a short time but i see an amazing improvement. They say the first few years are the hardest but here is to weathering the storm together!