Is anyone else scared of sex after your miscarriage(s)?

I've lost 2 pregnancies over the year and now all sex drive is gone. I'll get it occasionally, but normally it's not a desire to be with my husband. The first miscarriage we had sex a couple weeks later and it was awful. I couldn't stop thinking about the baby, and my body, and just everything.

It doesn't help that both times I lost them the day after we had sex. I can't say if that's a correlation but in my mind I think of it every. single. time.

He complains alot about it, and while he tries to be understanding I know it's still his needs. Just don't know what to do about it....