Miscarriage

I’m 21, me and my husband have been married a little over a year and has been with me through everything we are high school sweet hearts. I had thyroid cancer Christmas 2017 and had my whole thyroid removed so I take artificial hormones now. I was declared cancer free August 21, 2018 and got pregnant shortly afterwards. Our precious baby went to be with God 3 weeks ago , I was 9 weeks along. We decided to name our baby “Lael Martin” meaning “belonging to God” a gender neutral name to help us with the grieving process. I’m still going through everything physically, it’s slowing down I have also lost 25 lbs, emotionally and mentally I’m drained but doing better. I was going to try to use fertility shots when I was in the clear from this but idk what can help me conceive and help me have a healthier pregnancy. I need help and advice of all kinds I don’t know what to do I never want to experience this again. I have never commented or posted here I don’t really know how to do all this so please be patient with me. It is hard for me to open up but I figured it was time to get some help.