My boyfriend and I go to the same university and he wants me to spend the New Years + his birthday and the rest of winter break with him until its time to go back to school. He lives closer to our campus while I live across the country. Is it bad that I’d prefer to stay at home and work my winter job than be with him that long. Plane tickets are expensive. I offered to spend time with him a little after the semester ends (before Christmas) but he refuses to negotiate because he wants to spend those holidays together. HELP