Just got serious serious with my new guy. I'm not liking his sexual selfishness. When I was on my cycle I still gave him oral. Once I got off he hurt his groin paintballing and dont wanna do it because it hurts weather I'm on top or what have you. I asked him to just play with my boobs and I'd take care of the rest myself. He told me no because what was he going to do. And was absolutely serious because he went to sleep.

This is part vent. Part looking for advice.

Am I overreacting?