Overweight sexy pics??

Ever since having my son I haven't been able to lose any weight. I've gone from 140 to 230!! I now know I NEED to lose the weight which I'm going to start full heartedly next week. This is my last week to sort of enjoy the foods I no longer will be able to.

Anyhow. My husband is always asking me to send him pics. Before child I would always send him sexy pics. And I could do that shit so easily. But now that I have this big gut belly I cant seem to get a good sexy pic AT ALL. Doesnt help my arms are short so half the time I cant get a good angle because short arms and big belly dont mix lol.

So can I please get some tips. I hate having no confidence because it turns out looking like a beach whale 😂