BOTH GUYS ARE WAITING....

I've been dating this guy for near to 3 months. Things have progressed quickly and gotten serious. He wants me and says he falling. He is the sweetest guy and is everthing a girl would want in a partner. He's been there for me and has proven himself loyal and dependable.

However I have some reservations about him for me compatibity wise. Hes seems slightly immature for me and way too ott. I know I'll sound super ungrateful but he does too much. He's extra. He does stuff like prewritten messages during our convos (which I find bizarre), overly buying teddy's and stuffed animalsfor me, Constantly cuddling and kissing me to where sometimes I can't get a sentence out lol. I think he may possibly be infatuated..im not sure but he defo has potential for me to want to be with him long term. I'm 28 he's 25

So now an ex of mine and I have crossed paths and got talking again. I know I shouldn't have however He revealed to me he was deeply sorry of all that he's done - we broke up because he had commitment issues. We had a special bond that took us both by surprise it was just so natural and easy with us. But it came too soon for him and I was not about to wait on his ass full of maybes. So I ended it.

Now fast forward 2 years he says he still has deep feelings for me and is at a stage where he wants to commit - marriage. I know for him I was the ONE that got away. Also for me he was the love of my life as much as I hate to admit it and this has now brought up a lot of feelings that was locked away in Pandoras box...

He claims he's done a lot of maturing and sorted himself out - better job, new place in the city, travelling etc. But I can't just trust his words which is all they are right now. Also will things even be the same it's been 2 years with no contact. He's 31

So now I'm kind of in a pickle. I care about both. Also I've been open and honest with them about what's going on. I'm confused and feel terrible for putting guy no1 in this situation but he's been so considerate allowing me to take time to think, it makes me want him more.

He's my head's choice but my heart won't let me let go of the 2nd guy.

Should follow my head or my heart ♥?

JUST TO ADD I was single for a year before I started dating the 1st guy. Its just a coincidence that this is happening all now. My head is all over the place