I had an ecoptic pregnancy this month couple of weeks ago actually... and it hurt it hurt a lot not physically but emotionally..

Yes yes my husband friends and family were all very supportive but is it normal to feel alone to feel emptiness. My hubby has been great and has been coming home with gifts which he doesn’t need to but I think his a little loss and isn’t too sure what to do or how to react and his just not the type to pick up his phone and do research. So it’s not that anyone is doing anything wrong but why do I still feel this way? Loneliness...

I have people around me who have had miscarriages and yes they all explained their story and how they overcame such a traumatic event...

I have had people say

1. Something must’ve been wrong with the baby?

2. At least you weren’t that further on! > I don’t give a shit it was growing in side me it was 8 weeks a loss is a loss no matter how small or big it’s a loss 😭

3. Can you fall pregnant again? > well from what the doctors have said yes, yes I can but guess what that question runs through my mind every single day every single moment I think of my miscarriage the following question is am I going to fall pregnant again so please stop reminding me of that thought!!!!

4. Don’t worry you’ll fall pregnant eventually!! > I don’t understand it’s not like I’m adopting a pet or getting a new car. Is it normal for them saying that frustrates me so much!!

At this point I am reaching out to all of you help me guide me share your experience with me support me because I’m sick of googling shit and hearing bullshit questions and advise from people who just don’t know the feeling :( I’m sad and broken and I need to be me again

P.s me and my hubby have been TTC for over a year now