**I need to rant im sorry**

Im nearly 22 and have aspergers/autism, anxiety, depression and other medical issues. Ive been with my partner nearly 3years and he lives in a different county than me which is 3hours away. Im on the housing list and got a viewing about a flat i bidded on which is great but once all the paperwork came through and i worked all the money out i realised i cant afford it. And im not entitled to any help because i work, i got my PIP taken off me cos i work and im 'not disabled enough' and citizens advice have also said im not entitled to help from the council because i work. My partner is currently unemployed because he has autism and ADHD and no one will give him a chance, hes with the job centre but they arent helping him much at all. So basically no one will help him and im not entitled to any help so i feel like were both just stuck and its unfair because loads of people our age have their own places and we havent 😭💔