Advice for a family in need

Really dont know were to start. I have a 6year old son and an 8month old son. My 8month old was hospitalized recently I stayed with him the hole time my husband had to work around our 6year old which meant he didnt mams as much money we got behind on all our Bill's we dont have family here to help us.

Christmas is nearly here and we havent gotten a thing for our boys yet I'm currently not working as my husbands hours make it hard for me to commit to a time to start work and it should also cost a fortune to get someone to watch out boys. What I'm asking is for advice on what I can do were a month behind on rent and electric and gas and my 6 year olds birthday is next month to. Any advice anyone could give is much appreciated I hate being a stressed out mamma. X x