Friend poking holes in Condom should I tell her bf?

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So .....I was debating posting this but I need advice as she is my best  friend since childhood . They’ve been together for 2 years and had a MC awhile back, he’s not ready for a baby but she is and she told me she’s trying to “trick him” into a pregnancy and she wants to start poking holes in their condoms. Will holes that small even cause pregnancy? Any other people heard of this before? Like WTF 
-I’m at a loss of what to do right now. DH and I have been trying to conceive for 5 years, so her doing this makes me so upset. Should  I tell her BF? 
-Girls are crazy when it comes to babies!!! 
Please no judging me here just asking what y’all would do!

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What she is trying to do is sooo wrong. You need to convince her not to trick her man into having a baby. I wouldnt necessarily want to go behind her back and tell him but then again i would.

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Honest if you unlawfully trap someone this way and they consent to protected sex yet you try to trap them into creating a baby with you, charges could concur. Tell her bf and say you’re concerned about the situation and sit down with them both and express your concern for your friend and her mental well-being.

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Tell him. Forget her friendship. She is so wrong for that really. Have your husband tell him 🤷🏻‍♀️

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Is your husband close to him? If so, I think it’d be better if he said something. But I would try talking to her before that and see if you can convince her otherwise. What she’s doing is horrible and for his sake I hope she doesn’t succeed. It’s so selfish to bring a baby into the world when both people aren’t on board. Her man is going to resent her if she does that, or she’s going to end up being a single mom 🤷🏻‍♀️ I’ve personally witnessed that situation before. The girl purposely got pregnant because her man cheated on her all the time and she thought a baby would improve their situation (he was still in HS, she had graduated that year). He still cheated on her throughout her pregnancy and they’re no longer together. Doesn’t even seem like she loves her baby. It’s sad.

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I would just talk to your friend girl !

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I'm surprised he wouldn't notice though.... I mean it would be easier to pull off and would be leaking as he's taking it off. I personally would tell him as he needs to know. My sister tricked her husband into having a kid, stopped taking her birth control when he said he wasn't ready. He ended up filing for divorce and now she has a kid to raise on her own

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Let dh tell him 😂

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It’s wrong but not your place to say anything.

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I wouldn’t tell the bf. but I would definitely sit her down and have a very serious talk with her about what she’s doing. It’s a really serious matter to force someone into parenthood when they aren’t ready. Even people that are ready to be parents have a real stressful time. It would cause a ton of stress on their relationship, and if he ever found out...the repercussions would be awful

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I would sit down and talk her about it tell her it's wrong, if she don't listen go to her bf and tell him

Friend poking holes in Condom should I tell her bf?

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