Coping with body after pregnancy or weightloss

Anyone else's body wrecked after having a baby or after weight loss?

Some people are able to have the mind set that "each mark represents everything I went through to have my baby" and they show off their cute little marks that truly look BEAUTIFUL on most women.

And I'm over here like... um you didnt have to do ALL that though, body.

The loose skin? The stretch marks INSIDE MY STRETCH MARKS?! My stomach looks like an actual raisin over a year after my beautiful baby girls birth.

HOW ARE YALL COPING?