Is it normal to get frustrated with this??!!!!

Hello all. I’m typing this full of emotion. Correct me if I’m wrong, I can take criticism. My husband and I have a 17 month old daughter. He works a lot and I stay home and take care of the little one. I am lucky if my husband changes 5 diapers during the whole week. He had today off and has changed one diaper. I asked him if he could please change another diaper and he says in a weird, smirky way “noooo”.... 😒 I even offered him a little something JUST TO CHANGE THE DIAPER!! Mama needs a break! But, I changed it and now I don’t even want to look at him for the rest of the week.. I’m so exhausted sometimes and I need the help. Even if it is changing a diaper! I give him the full credit of being a great father, but should he be doing more to help me, even if it’s simply diaper changing???