For the girl dating a 30 year old

This is what I was wanting to say, but the topic was removed before I could post it, probably due to everyone cursing at you. So, hopefully you see this. 💕

So, obviously this post is a huge...HUGE shocker for us all reading this, but I'm not going to ride your case or judge you for it. None of us know you or what your life has been like, nor your reasons for wanting to be with someone his age. However, what I will say is this: 1) if he cares for you, he will wait for you to be of legal age to have sex with you. His actions do not show you the utmost love you deserve by putting you in a situation where you both could be in very serious trouble. Moreover, if you were to become pregnant at this age, he would be picked up by the authorities and you would be a single mother trying to make it through high school, and I honestly believe you wouldn't wish that on anyone (especially your potential son or daughter) and the 2nd thing I would like to say is just to be careful. I'm not going to sit here and judge him either, because I don't know him. However, in most cases like this, the man is usually suffering from a sexual disorder, and that wouldn't be a safe environment for you.

All I want you to know is that while I don't know you and you don't know me, I don't judge you at all, but I am concerned for your safety. Please be wise and think about the future, and the big picture. If you need someone to talk to, let me know.