I need advice..!
Okay, I’m not sure if I’m posting in the right group but I need help. Might as well make yourself comfy.
So I’m 18 my ex-boyfriend is 44 I’m currently 6 months pregnant. We started dating when I was 17. We were together for a year. We have had our ups and downs for sure but that’s every relationship.
He broke up with me about 2 weeks ago and I am so head over heels for this man..he broke up with me because I didn’t talk to him for 6+ hours in the car. Don’t forget, I’m pregnant so therefor I already wasn’t feeling too hot, my back was hurting, I had mood swings like crazy so I just decided to keep to myself and avoid the arguments.
About 10 minutes after we got home he told me to pack my sh*t and told me to leave. I tried staying and working things out and nothing was changing. I had all my stuff packed and he said “stay” in an attitude way. I told him it’s better off we get off of each other’s ass for the night, I came back to my parents and stayed here for a couple of nights. He told me that if I wanted to be with him I would’ve gone back.
I was considering on going back but I was tired of him calling me a bitch, cunt, piece of shit, etc. that’s all he does when he is mad. He takes it out on me. A couple of nights ago he had his Jeep windshield shattered. I did NOT do it, he has been accusing me of doing it when I didn’t.
Tonight a police officer had showed up to my door, he gave me paperwork for a temporary restraining order. I have court the 19th of this month. He is also trying to fight for our baby who isn’t even here yet.
I love my baby’s father more than anything and I wanted to spend the rest of my life with him. I want him back but I don’t know what to do. Any of you ladies have advice for me..?
Thank you
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