Does his behavior sound suspicious/cheating?

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My boyfriend of 5 years has a history of problems with pills. The other night I was on his phone and I found messages of him talking to another girl asking ber for Xanax and talking about smoking pot with her and her boyfriend. All the while he was telling me he was done with pills and I had no idea. Now I have trust issues. 
Now on Facebook I keep seeing him liking a certain girl’s things and commenting on them (not always pictures). He doesn’t ever comment on her selfies but he does like them. It’s like almost everything she posts/shares he likes, and she does the same with him. This has been going on for about 2 weeks.
 
The other night my boyfriend sent me pictures of his penis at like 5am. He NEVER does this, ever. He texted that he was hard from thinking about our sex. Then last night I was giving him a blowjob and he was literally falling asleep and kept getting soft. This has never happened before. I confronted him about the pictures to see if I was the only person he was sending pictures to and he said yes, he said he was looking at old pictures I sent him and it made him horny. 
Am I just being paranoid? Do you think this is indicative of cheating?

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I think it’s indicative of a drug problem

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Going through his phone didn’t cause you to have trust issues. You had those issues before or you never would’ve gone through it 🤷🏼‍♀️ it doesn’t sound like he’s cheating, but not being able to stay hard is a sign of a drug problem. It’s obviously not the only reason someone can’t stay hard though

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My question why are you on this if he is doing drugs this is a group for mommies

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You seem to be more concern about him maybe (not likely) cheating than him clearly using drugs.

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I had this problem with my ex, I was with him for two years and he had a drug problem. He told me he didn’t do them, but really he was. Everything that came out of his mouth was a lie, he was talking to so many girls, and he was cheating on me with his ex. I wish I would’ve went through his phone sooner. Don’t be ashamed to look at stuff, find out for yourself if you think he’s lying because if he’s scared to tell you the truth he will never come clean. After my ex and I split up and he got clean he told me that the drugs made him do things, he didn’t care about anyone but himself. I mean I don’t know how true that is because I’ve never done them... but it’s a possibility he’s hiding more than drugs.

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Sounds like a drug issue and maybe hesinto that girl who also does drugs since they have common interest.

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I've never been with someone with a drug problem but I've been in many relationships. yes u probably love him since uve been with him for so long how ever, maybe it's time to move on cuz it sounds like he is cheating or at least talking to other women sexually. but I'm not in the position to tell u what to do but I've been the other woman before it's not as glamorous as others think it is. He still left me for his wife after getting my knocked up

Does his behavior sound suspicious/cheating?

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