Marriage

We've been married 6 years, together 9, and an extensive history. My husband is always stressed, works a ton, etc. I try to make everything else easier on him but feel like sometimes I'm just not good enough. It feels like he enjoys being with his friends more than me, we don't have many interests in common. Lately I keep feeling like I should just let go. I hate talking to him about it because it will just add to the rest. Anyone else go through this phase?