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Warning,there will be spelling and grammar issues. Lol im on my phone and am the WORST texter typer!!! This is a long post!!
Ok so this may be long but i need opinions or suggestions on what u would do in this matter.ill highlight issues that have come up previously in our relationship then explain our current ones.
Starting with about 6 months after our secomd was born i almost left him cause he was being rude and talking to me like i was a punching bag. His additude stinked and he mever helped around the house. While i was taking care of the kids and going to college. We settled that he changed for a bit.
The next big blow up was, he "lost" his job. He actually quit and then lied to me. Then the mext day i was let go from my job. He found some work untill i found work then he stopped working to stay home but he never cleaned or cooked. I would come home from work to a dirty house and no food cooked. He literally played games all day. So not knly did i finacially aupport the entire house i alsp cleaned cooked and watched the kids right after.
Then the last one was he just stopped paying attention. I dont even remember. We got into it i kicked him out end of story.
After we reconciled we spent time together had a third child and up untill a month ago had been fine.
So this is what ive been doing in the last month.
Monday to friday wake up dress,/feed and make lunch for the oldest then i walk the kids to and from school total (60 mins) a day. When im at home i clean,play with the kids, get then lunch etc. When we get home after school i cook supper then after supper clean spend time with the kids then bedtime routine. then on thursday fridays i work 530 to 1130. My weekends dont exsist cause i work every single weekend all weekend. Thats my life .
He works 8 to 430 comes home to a clean kitchen and cooked meal. Takes his food downstairs and starts playing video games. Then i dont see him till bed at like 12 or 1 am. He has stopped eating dinner with me,stopped really paying attention to me. Our conversations consist of work and the kids. I recently found out he was talking to girl through game chat. I dont know if its just game talk or other. If i was downstairs listening he would talk with them. Today when he left for work he asked for cash from my wallett then left. No goodbye i love nothing. Also he kept his phone pretty close to hime and whenever he would wake up to roll over he always looked for his phone? I know having a conversation is the "right" thing to do but i feel done trying. Im always putting 80%into our relationship while he puts 20% i dont know how much longer i can do this.
Sorry for the long post😪
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