Ttc and romance

Well this is our way of ttc and making it romantic. Last month was our first month off of bc and ttc. I got pregnant but it ended up being a chemical pregnancy. I mean my husband has been on board since last month but after losing the baby he was like dont tell him when I'm ovulating just go with the flow and make it adventurous and not so obvious. So here it is my way without him feeling the pressure of knowing I'm ovulating but still ttc. I have noticed that some women on here get so caught up on symptom spotting temping tracking and all that and forget about romance and the intimacy part of sex. I track with opks but I kind of just let the rest just happen. I have been with my SO for 12 years and everyday is like us meeting each other for the first time. We have had our ups and downs but mostly just ups. That's how I know he is my soulmate no matter what my heart wants him and I make him better and he makes me better. Never had a desire to cheat and he has never cheated. This man would give me the world if he could. I wrote all this to say dont forget about the love u share and the joy of making luv to your SO in the midst of all of this baby fever we having. It will happen trust in God. Excuse the words I used in the note I'm ovulating and im really frisky right now. Patiently waiting for him to get off work! Baby dust to all!!!!!!!!