Should I be pissed off?

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So I'm a very sexual person and I like to get laid and also I like to do it in different ways and positions. But lately its been a while since my boyfriend was interested in having sex with me. So today I was doing the dishes and I went into the office where he said he was studying but he wasn't. He was masturbating. So I don't know if I should be pissed off or not because he wasn't cheating on me but it sort of feels like he was because he is being selfish and not considering how I feel or about me wanting to get laid.

Accepted Answer

To be honest I would be offended and upset, he knows you have a high sex drive and still decided on using his hand. I mean there is nothing wrong with guys doing that I just don’t understand the need to if the girl has a high sex drive

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He doesn’t owe you sex.

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He’s allowed to touch his own penis

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I dont care if my man masturbates but it does kind of piss me off when (I have a high sex drive too) I ask him if he wants to mess around or if I make moves and he blows me off or he straight up says he doesnt want anything and then chooses his damn hand anyway.

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I'd be upset af and I've experienced something similar so I understand why you are unsure if you should be. But yeah you have every right to be pissed

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He’s RUDE😡

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I'd be absolutely livid. Especially if he was watching porn. It would make me feel like I wasn't good enough sexually. Like he wasn't attracted to me. But not having sex because he would rather jerk it is really shitty in my opinion.

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I talked to my husband about this a long time ago. I told him that I didn’t like him choosing porn or whatever over me. He said he hasn’t asked me because every time he’d ask I’d say no. So I asked him to at least ask me before he goes to his phone.

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I wouldn’t be. I don’t think it has anything to do with them not enjoying us, I think it’s just something they like to do 🤷🏻‍♀️

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I will be definitely pissed and honestly change him for a toy show it off and make him feel worse

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