I fucking hate him 😡

I cannot believe how having a baby has destroyed my marriage.

My husband and I were a GREAT couple. We rarely argued, got along great, did everything together, and had similar hobbies. But having a baby showed me how much of an asshole he is. We are BOTH on maternity leave but he thinks he deserves all the freedom. He goes to the gym every day. He goes hunting every morning and every evening. He has picked up a new hobby of wood work so he is in the garage a lot and out shopping for wood 😒.

The only time I get out of the house is to grocery shop. That's it.

He then tells me he wants to go on the paleo diet and asks me to do all the research and buy everything for it.

So as the dutiful wife I do research and a ton of shopping because I too would love to try this! What he doesnt understand is that the paleo diet involves a LOT of meal prepping and cooking. So I ask him to stay home ONE evening this week so I can meal prep and cook a few meals. He FREAKS OUT!!! Calling me petty, stupid, lazy, helpless, etc. We have been fighting all month about me needing some help around the house and he cant comprehend it. I am the only one doing the dishes. I am the only one cooking the meals. I am the only one cleaning the house. I cannot stand it!!!!! I hate that he is now belittling me because I need help. I am EBF which is why my time is so limited.

I hate him right now. Really truly hate him

Thanks for letting me rant. I feel a little better