It definitely hurts when someone cheats on you and they leave you right after you wanted to work it out with there coworker. Anyways so I’m decided to just move away from this situation.

He is on child support but we don’t have a visitation arrangement through the courts. So his mom gets him when she wants to.

I do plan on moving to AL. I applied to a college transferred my credits there, Put in a couple of applications for a apartment, and started looking for jobs there.

I’m not leaving to be nasty I don’t mind him getting him every summer , winter and half of spring break. But in fl where I live I make $13 an hour and a 2/1 is 1050. In Homewood AL I will be making 16 and 2/1 is 734 in a gated community. A huge difference. My sister also lives in Al so I won’t just be stepping out alone.

My question is should I tell him now or later after I have everything established up there and when I come back down to get my son then tell him. Then we can go to the courts and such because they can’t make me stay where I don’t want to. I’ve been wanting to move since I had my son and we were together then. We don’t even talk his girlfriend wants to fight me. The only thing he does is pick up his son when his mom wants him that’s it. I’m not trying to keep them away from him idc but I will just like to move peacefully

Seriously it’s been 8 months since I’ve been holding on I’m not gonna lie I was begging him back and blowing him up. Simply because I just wanted to raise our son together in one household. He always told me he was gonna come back and then the other day he said I will never have him again, I promise u that. So I just blocked him. I have yet found another guy🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️ my baby’s father was my first relationship so maybe that’s why idk. They say time heals everything but it’s been 8 months and I just want to be happy again. He tells his new girlfriend I’m a whore and he regrets me and everything which is hurtful. I’ve never slept around on him he did me that way.

Also let’s say when I move and during the summer he has him does child support get cut off or what?

I just feel like a fresh start somewhere else with new people will help me so much.