Can’t get into sex

Alanna

So ever since I had my son I almost hate having sex and I don’t understand it. When I’ve had a couple drinks I get into it. Sometimes I want it and then when we’re about to start four play it hurts. I feel uncomfortable and then I just want it to hurry up and get it over with the entire time I’m waiting for it to get over with. I hate it. I don’t understand because I love my boyfriend but once we start doing it I hate it and it makes me wonder why I feel this way. Like nothing feels good anymore. I used to love four play, sex, kissing and now I’m always turning away feeling disgusted and like cringe when I’m being touched. I was wondering if anyone has ever felt this way and how they got over it.