Seen my little bean today with my boyfriend, his reaction was priceless I wanted to cry😭😭 the baby moved a lot, lol. I do have some questions

1. My doctor's office doesn't check for the gender, where else can I do it?

2. The doctor told me I was dehydrated, how much water I need to drink?

3. Is it normal for the heartbeat to change it was 180 now its 167?

Thank you for taking the time out, ftm and I'm just lost about a lot of things. Congrats to the other mothers along for the ride and prayers for a healthy and safe delivery ❤

Just in case: 12 weeks and 2 days 😊