Husband is addicted to gaming

Erica

I've posted on here before about my husband having a gaming addiction. He always says he'll just play when the kids go to bed... but as soon as we get home from school/work/picking the kids up he'll get on. Stay on for a while then either see what I'm doing which is usually watching the kids, our son is 3 and baby girl is 8 months, along with doing dishes,laundry and trying to clean my walking tornado of a son,lol. We'll have dinner then he will get back on when the kids are still up. I've talked to him numerous times about it and everytime he says he will get better about it, it last a few days maybe then hes back at it. I've brought up him moving it into the basement, expressing my frustration with him not being present in our child's lifes. He automatically gets defensive about it. I've brought up the whole " it's me or that game" and he goes straight to divorce talk. I dont want that I just want him more present in the kids lifes. I'm depressed about it, cry myself to sleep, while he plays till all hours of the morning. I work while he goes to school using his GI bill, and I feel like I'm the only one doing anything anymore. I'm so lost about what to do anymore...