My boyfriend and I have been together almost four months now. We’ve been having sex for about a month and it’s always over in like 10 minutes tops (including foreplay and everything - if we were doing *it* for that long I would not be complaining lol). It just doesn’t seem like he’s that into drawing it out and making it last. It’s kinda like “I’m turned on, let’s touch for two seconds and then do the damn thing.” And I like a quickie as much as the next girl but when it’s happening every time I feel...let’s go with deprived. It kinda makes me feel like he just wants to masturbate with my body because we never take that time to stretch it out.

I want to talk to him about this but I’m not sure how to. I know that he loves me a *lot*, and I don’t want to hurt his feelings by telling him it feels like he doesn’t care, but I also want to be honest with him about what I’m feeling and what I want. Has anyone else ever had this problem or have any ideas?