Before I found out I was pregnant I used to smoke, I don't any more but my boyfriend dose. My boyfriends entire family smokes. I can't stand the smell. I smell it in his hair, on his skin in his breath it's annoying, but he tries really hard to not have the smell around me. He will take his Jacket off outside when he comes inside he'll brush his teeth he'll take showers he cut back so much on smoking because he knows how bad the smell nauseated me. I'm concerned because his family smokes in their house and when you walk in their house it smells, like you smell it everywhere and I don't want my kid around that. But I don't want to be the bad guy and tell him you can't take him to your moms house. I'm frustrated. I went to his moms house for Thanksgiving and wind up having an asthma attack and this is my concern because if the air is that thick to the point where I have an asthma attack what is that doing to my kid when he there.