I recently broke up and I became mentally healthy since I realized how the relationship was unhealthy. I started to dress up more and wear make up and feel great about myself. I never experienced how to get a guy's attention other than Tinder and Facebook. I want to flirt in person but I'm too shy and awkward. A friend is trying to teach me how to flirt but I'm not an outgoing person as her. Although, in one college class I dressed up a bit and was puffing my chest out (stretching and adjusting my shirt) and kind of bending over (leaning against a table) towards a guy I had a crush on. Then I see on social media how girls are sluts/thots for flirting with guys or flirt with too many guys and I'm scared of being called one or be seen as one.