My boyfriend recently told me that he likes a finger up his butt while getting a bj. (Not a whole finger, just a little bit). I’ve never done that before so I’m not used to it at all. I did it for him, because if he likes it I want to do it for him, but it was hard getting past the fact that my finger was up his butthole 🤢 any tips on getting past that? This is not a joke so serious answers only! 😬 please be nice and if you think it’s gross, don’t answer.

And I know this is really gross, but my finger still slightly smells after washing it several times with soap and water and even hand sanitizer (I thought the alcohol in hand sanitizer would help). Any tips on that and does it happen to anyone else who does this for their man..? 😬