I need some advice . My first 2 pregnancies me and my bestfriend were pregnant together . A couple weeks ago she told me she was pregnant and we joked that I needed to get pregnant because we always went through it together . Last week she lost the baby at 8 weeks pregnant . And I just found out a couple days ago that I'm pregnant . How do I tell her ? She is so broken over her miscarriage , hell I'm broken for her too . I plan on announcing at Christmas , I don't want her to find out through Facebook . She knew I was trying , but now that shes lost her baby I'm afraid telling her I'm pregnant will crush her . I need help please .