After years of bullying from when I was 11 to 23 years old I decided to beat the bullies. They made constant comments about my size, said I'd never get in a relationship, never have kids, never be attractive to anyone. I met my boyfriend and he loved me at my biggest but I chose to lose weight for me and my health, no one else. and I've lost 100 pounds, I'm engaged to be married and it's only 9 months till our wedding. Everyone can get through the tough times, just keep fighting on.