Should i take offense to this comment?

My man and I were just talking about something and I was like "oh you don't really like condoms at the first place because you don't like how it feels". Then, he goes will it's the girls responsibility to have them and I went "yeah some what". Mind you his friend is right there didn't know at that time we were FaceTime and he was like yeah I could've prevented what's inside of you and they both laughing. Me thinking he was kinda joking. I cried and he says something like oh you're sad now? and am like am mad I cry when am mad because Clearly am trying to bite my tongue. Idk if am over reacting or not..