How do I go to the Gyno?

Question

I lost my virginity two weeks ago to a guy who has had sex with 6 girls before me. He told me he was a virgin too and I am just now finding out he was not. It burns when I pee and I have discharge. I live with my dad and brothers and there isn’t any women figures in my life. How do I tell my dad I need to go go to the gynecologist. Im only 16 and he doesn’t know I lost my virginity😭 i’m afraid to tell him💔

Answer

There are multiple reasons you could need to go. You could tell him you might have a yeast infection and need to see the gyno. 
Are you in the states(need your parents insurance?) if not you could just call yourself. In Canada you don’t need a parents permission over age 14 so you can just make an appointment as a teen.
Another option would be to see if there is a free planned parenthood or sexual health clinic near you.
I’m sorry that dude was a jerk to you. Hardway lessons are a bitch

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Just tell him you need to go. He should understand that women needs to go to the gyno not only because you lost your virginity but because its a need. But you can always tell a auntie, when I lost my virginity i told my auntie since I was scared of my mom's reaction. But you need to talk to your dad.

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I know exactly how you feel rn :( 
My ex boyfriend was cheating on me and ended up giving me chlamydia when I was 16. I knew something was wrong but I had NO idea how to ask my mom to take my to go get tested. Hell I was terrified to tell her when I first had sex.  
For me when I have to bring up something uncomfortable with my mom I text her and tell her first. Try that with your dad or even one of your brothers. Hopefully they will understand, it may not go smoothly but most likely the conversation will go okay.  It’s best to be open and honest about things. 
For the gyno if your dad consents you can go the room by yourself. 
If you don’t feel comfortable even telling your dad free clinics require no parental consent and are 100% confidential. Go with your best friend and get things figured out. 
Try not to stress to much because it could be a number of things, sex for the first time can throw off your vagina naturally. And if it is an std the likelihood of it being anything severe like HIV are smaller. If it would be any std it be chlamydia or gonorrhea which ARE TREATABLE. 
Boys are sucky and unfortunately it gets worse, use condoms liberally and if I guy won’t wrap it, don’t let him tap it lol 
Good luck  :)

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Does he let you out the house by yourself?

How do I go to the Gyno?

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