Sons private’s?

A

This is a weird one & I’m not sure if this is normal - my son is 2 1/2 and he HATES having his privates cleaned. It’s been this way for like over half a year now. He literally screams at the top of his lungs like he’s being killed and he shakes around trying to get away from me. I have to hold his arms and legs down just to clean his privates during his diaper changes. There’s no irritation, no redness, I use a regular soft wipe, and during his routine dr visits his doctor says his privates are completely fine and that nothing is actually wrong. Anyone else dealt with this? Changing diapers has become hell😭 he’s my first boy so I’m not sure if this is common. (Also - I’m with him 24/7 every single day he’s never had a traumatic diaper change or anything that may have led to this.)