My long distance bf wanted me to send him a video masturbating. So I did. He kept being evasive about how he felt about it. Then he said he learned something he didn't want to learn. I asked him and he spend 30 mins to reply back because he said he didn't want to be rude.

He said i don't look like a virgin. I am and he is. So we always talk about losing it to eachother. It pains me so much that my vagina doesn't look like one. 😭

He always said i was a freaky person so he was suspicious and always says he doesn't believe me. I thought the video would prove that but ig I was wrong.

I'm so upset with myself. And I know he still doesn't believe me when u say I am.

What should I do?

Update: he's being stupid saying it's fine he spoke his mind even after I sent him an article about how vaginas are different and the hymen doesn't mean you are a virgin. I cut him off at least for a while.