Is it better to just go with the flow? 🤔

Hello I am a mother of 2 handsome boys. Deep down in my heart I want a daughter. My husband goes back and forth of not wanting another to having another. I just call it go with the flow. However, not to say I am trying but I am one of those gals that likes to stay in tuned with myself. So, I went to the doctors back during the summer to make sure my cycles are not irregular. Turns out my cycle shifted. 😳 meaning I’m not a normal 28 day cycle I’ve opened up to 35 day cycle. So have there been times where I’m like happy my hubby shot his shot lol 😂 keeping it PG here. Yes. But still no baby! I cramp like a muuuuhhhhug before my cycle and I’m guessing ovulation. Then cycle comes I’m easy breezy! This app is really cool, this is my first day on it. I’m needing suggestions because once I pass 30 I’m not having no more babies and pray it’s a girl the next go around. Is it better for me to go with the flow and let it happen, or what? Come on ladies a gal desperate for a Mini Me! Lol 😂