Anal for the first time?

Question

My boyfriend has been asking me over and over to try anal sex. I’m totally up for it as it seems to be fun and something that a lot of couples like to do. I just feel like it’s going to hurt soo badly. He’s only put his finger in half way during sex one time,  and I liked it a lot but after I came i tensed up and it kinda hurt. I just don’t want to hurt myself. I really wanna do it for Christmas or New Years. Does anyone have any tips or tricks for me to get used to the whole something in my butt? Because I really wanna surprise him.

Answer

Okay here is my anal story;
My boyfriend kept asking about it. I told him he could try, so he lubed up his fingers and dick and started off by using one finger (which obviously hurt) then used two and I told him to work his way up. He tried sticking it in and I screamed. he said he didnt even get the head in.😑 I started bleeding out of my ass and said no more anal. Well he was upset so I told him we would figure something out. I got butt plugs (a set of 3 different sizes) and a numbing gel. We tried the butt plugs, and it was okay, but when he tries to put it in it hurt really bad again plis the numbing gel got in my pussy and freaked me out.. that was the end of that try. The third time we tried, I was WASTED off my ass. I told  him we could try, we used the numbing gel and I laid on my side, he slid it in and then I turned into doggy position and he pounded the crap out of me, and it felt good. 
My advice is to try to poop before, try different things out to see what feels right for you, and use anal numbing gel. It can get messy and there can be weird noises etc.

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It is hard to relax sometimes even when its just a couple fingers in but it does help if you relax but use lube like KY jelly to make it a little easier when it first goes in but it will hurt it just takes time to get used to it because it does go away eventually or that’s what I found

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You’re gonna need more than half way of a finger trust me haha, get him to start with one then two and keep building till you feel ready to take the actual thing, the most important thing is that you relax!! First time my man put it in it hurt like hell I had to run to the toilet so he wouldn’t see me close to tears, but we tried again half an hour later and I completely relaxed and it was completely fine it felt amazing!! Baring in mind we were only using spit for lube as well. Although since using lube it’s definitely the better alternative. Shower before and try do an enema if you can to prevent any accidents

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Definitely need to be relaxed!!! I also find depending on the position and the angle it can really feel great! Make sure you’ve got lots of lube 😉

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Get him to tease with his fingers too, if you are relaxed and begging for it your body will accept it easier. I also love being licked there.

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Be fully relaxed

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