not really sure what to do 🙄 please read

My dad and his wife will not respect my wishes of my little one.. like I had gotten upset because I asked them not to kiss her and they still did! Not to mention my step mom has herpes (it wasn’t flamed up) but still. This is my first baby! They’ve only seen her 3 or 4 times, and she’s almost 8 weeks old.. His wife threw me a great baby shower and bought my lo a bunch of stuff. Well they came over today and kissed her again! Not on the face but on the head. Why can’t they respect my wishes? I want them to be in my little ones life but.. obviously they’re gonna do what they want. Should I not let them see her anymore because they don’t respect my wishes? I wanna do what’s best for her.. I want her to have grandparents because I really didn’t have any.

Update: I kept her 4 weeks from them because they kissed her. And they KNEW THAT. Well the first time back they kissed her again, I guess thinking I’d be more lenient because she’s more older now?