So I’m 24 three months happily married with my 29 year old husband. I’ve just taken two tests and have found out I’m pregnant.

I’ve previously had three abortions before, 1 when I was 18 with someone I did not want to stay with and 2 with my now husband because I felt I wasn’t ready for children at the time.

My husband always expresses he wants children and gets so excited by the thought of them. Both times I got the abortion he didn’t want me too, but was supportive that I wasn’t ready. (Bless his soul)

So now I’m stuck, we’ve had a plan, that 2020 was the year, we’d build ourselves up financially, pay off debt, have a bigger house, build our careers ect.

So my feelings are so conflicted, I love my husband and can picture us having children, I love baby’s and love the idea of it all, but... I do not think we/I are 1- financially stable 2- I’m not sure I’m ready yet.

I’ve been working so hard at my career and am so close to where I want to be, I feel like staying on this path will diminish all I’ve worked hard for, and I know that if I decide to keep this baby it’ll be worth it but I’m also thinking I just want to accomplish what I’ve been working so hard for.

Also I fear we are not financially stable yet for a baby we live month to month and have so much debt/bills that I can’t see us being able to afford a baby.

I know he will say he wants to keep it but I’m looking for some outside insight that isn’t biased.