Would y’all be with a man who has kids with someone else?

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Why or why not

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I, personally, can not date someone with kids period.

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At the point I am in life no. (If I was single lol) Later in life maybe but at 25 I’d rather try to find someone I can start fresh with... 
i feel like there’s always issues with baby mamas and kids not adapting well to a step mom, I would just prefer not deal with this right now. 
Maybe if I’d be single later on in life I wouldn’t mind but just not in my early 20’s

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Nah. Some baby mamas are crazy as fuck and will make yalls relationship hell.

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Heck no

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No, I'm not endowed with that much patience.

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In a relationship (engaged) with the man of my dreams and he has 3 kids from his previous marriage. It's not what they have or what they don't have it's WHO they are. And mine treats me like no one has ever before,  the sex is beyond amazing, and I just love him like crazy I wouldn't change a thing.

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I have in the past and I didn’t work out. No baby mama drama , it was all him with the comparison and him trying to talk down about my children. Nope never again 😒

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I currently am.

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I have two of my own but ima have to say no 😂😂

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It depends honestly. If he had multiple baby mothers I’d never consider it because I’d be concerned about his ability to commit to a relationship for life. If he was divorced from the mother then I’d probably still say no as I don’t want to deal with her. If she was really nice and truly didn’t mind her ex finding someone new and that woman being in her child’s life then that’d be ok. But, too many ex wives are just awful to the step mother and I’m not dealing with that. I also don’t like the idea of having to be a second parent- I feel like as a step parent you don’t have the same say in the child’s upbringing (which Id agree with- the parents should have the ultimate say in what happens with their child). But I’d find that hard considering I have my own kids and would want them all to be raised the same. So I’d still struggle with that. 
Maybe if the mother had passed it’d be different as then I could step in to be more like a mother. Of course I wouldn’t want to replace the mother they’d lost, but it’d still be different. 
I’m married though so it’s not really an issue. I have no desire to try again with anyone else. If I lost my husband I don’t know if I’d ever want to start again with someone anyways.

Would y’all be with a man who has kids with someone else?

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