First appointment/refferal

Hi ladies so I am 8 weeks pregnant and it's been about 3 weeks that my doctor sent my obstetrics/obgyn office my refferal to go see her.

How long does it take for doctors office to get refferals? Like I said before it's been 3 weeks and my doctor's office has sent my obgyn office the refferal multiple times now at least 3 times in the past 3 weeks. I just called today again and my doctors office sent it again through fax and emailed the refferal to them as well

I am getting very frustrated bc my obgyn office is no help all they say if they haven't received it yet and for me to wait another week to call again. I'm ready to start looking for a different obgyn at this point.

Any suggestions I can do ?