What’s wrong with me?

Question

Help! I’m 28 with 3 kids and a husband and hate having sex! There’s no want for me to do it. I don’t get excited about it and even when we are doing it I could care less if I am! What’s wrong with me? How do I get my want for it back?

Answer

You can go to your local vitamin store and get something to help with your libido. My sex drive went from insanely horny to non existent after I had my last child..so that's what I did.
I also forced myself to get into it. Wore sexy lingerie and threw myself at him. Thats what helped the most. When they say, "fake it til you make it"...they arent wrong.
Talk dirty back and forth to him all day to get a little foreplay going..and jump his bones when you see him. You'll get it back, you'll just have to work on it.

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Could be birth control or something you're deficient in after having kids. I'd get a work up make sure you're labs are all good first.

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Birth control has that effect on me, it’s messes me up. Could that be the issue?

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Maybe you should talk to your partner about focussing only on foreplay/romantic/erotic without penetration for a while, see how long it takes for you to really want sex again.

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try new things ! new positions, new foreplay, etc.

What’s wrong with me?

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