Homebodies VS “Party Girls:” what do men really want??

To the single ladies or women who’ve dated in the past few years:

Is the male narrative of “I want a girl who prefers to stays home, who would rather read books or sleep all day than go to a club/bar” something that’s attractive to hear from a guy?

Have you found that the men who say that are ALSO homebodies, or are they in the clubs/at the bars while their girl is at home?

Every time I see a repost of a tweet (updated with examples below) or post in that vein it makes me uncomfortable because it seems controlling, more of a “I don’t want a girl who goes out with her girls while I’m not around” type of opinion. Maybe it’s because I’m old (26 lmao) and married with kids? Am I overthinking? Is there a double standard? Help me understand “what the kids are saying.”