I just recently got married, and everyone has already started with the question of, “when are y’all having kids?”

Don’t get me wrong my husband and I have thought about and would love kids. Sometimes I think he wants them more than me. His face always lights up when he talks about him and his little boy/girl. However, I went to the doctor today to talk to her about it. Sadly, she informed me there is a very slim chance I could ever conceive. If I did there is a even slimmer chance I would carry full term.

I’m completely saddened about it, but there is also a part of me that doesn’t want to believe it.

I know people are gunna keep asking us when and why we haven’t yet. How do I even answer them?