He’s not even close UPDATE!!!!

The topic is referring to two things. Well I guess you could just call them questions.

My boyfriend and I have sex pretty frequently. It’s how he is and well, I’m not complaining. However our relationship is still in the honeymoon phase and well I’m not quite sure how to just confront him about this one thing he does.

What it is? He goes to rub my clit and misses. For someone who claims to have been around sexually for years, you’d think he know where it is. But he’s not quite there. How do I tell him he’s missing it?

My second question is more so a “how do I help him” one. So he has a hard time cumming. He has a fantastic sex drive. Will stay hard and please me over and over again, until I’ve came myself a good 3 times or so which, ladies as I’m sure you can agree, is pretty nice to be sexually cared for by our partners. But they he just can’t cum. It takes a long time. And he’ll get close but then can’t. Or it’ll be “backed up” for days regardless of us having sex. He loves having sex with me. He expresses it in many ways. But although he says it’s not me, and that even the Dr said it’s him needing to mentally clear his mind and what not, I still feel useless.

Any suggestions on how I can at least try to help him? He looks so defeated more often than not when he can’t.

Update****

I got him to cum!!!!!