If you took your kid to their cousins/ siblings/ other relative birthday party (their bday isn’t even close) do you give them a candle to blow out too? Or their own cake etc

Question

This happens a lot for my cousins. They get their own small cake (or a pice of cake) and a candle at someone else’s birthday party because they cry if they don’t get to blow out a candle. Just wondering how many people do this. Because I think it’s just rude.

Accepted Answer

Oh nice, teaching them to expect participation trophies when they get older and think the world owes them things

Answer

No, not everything is about them lol they’ll get over it

Answer

What? No. If kid is going to throw a fit for getting a piece of cake without a candle, then they don't get the piece of cake.

Answer

Wow that’s sad.

Answer

Lol no.

Answer

Those kids are gonna be in for a big surprise when they're older and at work, expecting to get days off or bonuses because other people get them. 🤦🏻‍♀️

Answer

Same thing happens st my MILs house (her grandkids live with her) if I eat a cookie, ice cream jerky etc that I bought with MY money then I have to give them one (not just a pice of mine a full thing or they throw a fit) with them or I have to go somewhere else because she doesn’t want to hear them yell about it. (This is my post btw) and I think it’s so ridiculous that they SAY they’ll punish them but never do because they don’t want to get up. They are so spoiled it gets to the point of kicking and screaming on the floor and once he calms down they put a movie on and give him a cookie or something. They run the house 100% and I can’t wait to move

Answer

Never even heard of this. It's not their day. Don't be weak parents and learn to tell your kids no.

Answer

Um yeah that’s weird. It isn’t THEIR birthday tf lmfao mad weird that their parents even do that.

Answer

That’s ridiculous. Now when my little cousin came to my birthdays I would always invite him to help me but no he never got his own shit that doesn’t teach them anything except to be a brat.

If you took your kid to their cousins/ siblings/ other relative birthday party (their bday isn’t even close) do you give them a candle to blow out too? Or their own cake etc

The Top Baby Tracker App: Embrace New Beginnings with Tender Care

The Top Fertility Tracker App: Your Path to Achieving Pregnancy

The Top Pregnancy App: Nurturing Your Journey to Motherhood

The Top Period Tracker for Empowering Your Menstrual Health Journey