boob job?

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i’m 44 and used to be super confident about my body before three kids you know? my husband always talks about how he loves my boobs and asks if i want a boob job... I tell him no and he says he’s ok with it but I know it would really make him happy. I mean i’m not completely apposed but at age 44 does it really help? right now I am currently 15 weeks pregnant so I would have the surgery after the baby is done breastfeeding. I know it would really surprise my hubby but would it work?

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It’s just not cool for your husband to bring up the idea. ❌ I’m considering a titty job because I’m flat AF since training, but that’s all in good time and when I want it. 
You’re worth more than yo titties

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Sorry but it seem like you husband has a boob obsession. Usually guys don’t ask you things like this on a normal basis. And to me a normal thing for a man to say to his wife would be “you’re perfect the way you’re, but if this is something YOU want then I’ll support you” or the typical “you don’t need it, i love you just the way you’re”. Don’t do it for him. Especially right after having a baby. Getting your boobs done hurts. You’re 44. You’re at much higher risk. No offense to you. I feel like I’d be more for it if you said you’re the one who doesn’t feel comfortable with the size or if they’re different size or they sag so much. If none of those are the problems stuck to push up bras or not but I have a feeling you’re boobs are perfect and beautiful.

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If you’re mainly going to get it done for your husband I wouldn’t suggest doing it. I suggest doing research on the longevity of them and recovery process etc and then make your decision based on what YOU want for your body.

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It’s definitely not cool for your husband to keep bringing it up and making those suggestions.
It’s YOUR body, not your husbands and you should do what is right for you. Don’t get surgery just because he wants you to. You should be worth more to your husband than that.

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If you are open to surgery, if it would make you feel better about your body. Maybe only a lift, don’t get implants

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Getting a bold job should be done with thorough research.  That holds true for any surgery by the way.  Research the surgery, the surgeon, the risks and benefits...and do this together!  Of course this is your body, but this surgery is not cheap and not something you can hide and do as a “surprise.”   
Why not talk about it and do the research and planning together?
Good luck sweetie

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I think if it’s something YOU truly want and you wouldn’t be doing it just for your husband then why not go for it. I got mine done about 5 years ago and I LOVE them so much. I don’t regret it at all. Let me know if you have any questions about the procedure :)
**I do think it’s rude that it seems HE was the one who brought it up though** 
It truly has to be your decision for you.

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I think it’s definitely a decision you would need to consider yourself and go from there. Yes, our husbands play a role I decision making, but of course, it’s your body and your risks. 
I am only 26, but pregnant with my second and plan to get mine done when I am 30. I used to love my full perky DD and after having my first and breastfeeding for a year (which I will try to do for my second) I was completely depressed with how they look now and it makes ME unhappy. Which, in turn, makes my sex drive go down and then I torture my poor husband because I am self conscious. Of course, my husband is very loving and says they do not bother him, but they bother ME and I can see how my insecurities cause a domino effect. So I decided to do it when I am done having kids for my 30 birthday.

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My mother had a double mastectomy and implants in her early 60s and said she loved them.
Can you do it?  Yeah, sure.  The real question is should you.
I agree that if you don't do it for you then you shouldn't do it.  It is a major life change.

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Most ladies i know who have got a boob job have actually regretted it and had the implants removed

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