Am I the only one who hates baby showers now that there TTC. I’m sitting here at my mother in laws family’s baby shower which I don’t know any body here and I’m miserable. It’s been 3 years TTC three years of heartbreak after heartbreak. So no I don’t want to be involved with a stupid baby shower. Further more Iv got a bunch of my husband family asking me when we will have kids and my husband slipped up and said we are working on it but having difficulty which they intern took it as me being the problem when I’m not. We struggle with male infertility and I hate the people automatically assume it’s the Womens fault. Now I’m miserable and pissed off. I hate baby showers this is exactly why I didn’t want to come but was forced to come by my mother in law. When I told her the reason I didn’t want to come she told me to just get over it.